Greetings all,
I have a funny post up my sleeve (believe me - have children - will experience embarassment) but i thought i'd just give a shout out for Dementia Awareness Week here in Australia. As it's something close to my heart with my mummy, who has been going downhill for 5 years now with Alzheimer’s. Sadly my mother was diagnosed the week her sister died from complications of Alzheimer's Disease (giving up on life, eating, drinking).
So you might hear me comment over & over that my parents are non stop jet setters & cruisers but that is because they LOVE to travel, coupled with the fact my mother is relaxed, less stressed & can focus better on my father, appearing less forgetful & frustrated while on holiday. My father tries hard, but after nearly 55 years of marriage, he has never EVER cooked a meal, picked up the vacuum or done a load of washing. In his defence, he joined the Navy aged 17 & well, never had to do anything for himself, as he married the ultimate housewife. So it's a struggle for both of them. Anyway, i think we're all a tad mentally healthier on holiday!!
So spare a thought for the many people, bloggers, families out there with someone close to their heart suffering from a mental illness. My children have had one grandmother taken from them with breast cancer, it's so very sad to see their other grandmother can't always remember who they are.
Just to put a little spin on this as my mother has a brilliant sense of humour & would appreciate this . . . 3 of my children are very polite around my mother when she calls them the wrong name, gives them the wrong drink, drifts off mid sentance . . . except ONE. Yes, everyone has ONE of those blunt, direct, no nonsense children/ grandchildren (i hope) - ours is the middle 9 y.o. daughter. If Grandma starts stuttering or repeating herself, stuck on a thought . . . our impatient daughter will correct her or worse . . . say "AND Grandma, come on, finish the story, AND" while waving her hand in a come-on-hurry-up gesture. In all honesty it breaks the ice & we all have a giggle. Love you mummy, good luck to everyone out there with these often talked-around diseases, blame the illness not the person!! Love Posie
Just to put a little spin on this as my mother has a brilliant sense of humour & would appreciate this . . . 3 of my children are very polite around my mother when she calls them the wrong name, gives them the wrong drink, drifts off mid sentance . . . except ONE. Yes, everyone has ONE of those blunt, direct, no nonsense children/ grandchildren (i hope) - ours is the middle 9 y.o. daughter. If Grandma starts stuttering or repeating herself, stuck on a thought . . . our impatient daughter will correct her or worse . . . say "AND Grandma, come on, finish the story, AND" while waving her hand in a come-on-hurry-up gesture. In all honesty it breaks the ice & we all have a giggle. Love you mummy, good luck to everyone out there with these often talked-around diseases, blame the illness not the person!! Love Posie




























