"you know all soldiers have affairs during deployments" . . .
"do you feel you have to stay in the relationship as you married young" . . .
"does he beat you up" . . .
"so he's a war monger, has he ever killed anyone" . . .
you get the drift, i wasn't in a hurry to share. I don't ask finance dudes if they are 'embezzling banker wankers' or solicitors if they are 'fraudulent lawyer scum'. So why the stereotypical intrusive questions for soldiers?? Ignorance!! It's hard to not get on a pro-Army-band-wagon, but moronic attitudes are difficult to adjust.
The awful comments kept going, not worth my breath to repeat.