Greetings all,
“it’s another year over & a new one just begun” . . . Happy New Year!!
This week marks 1 year into 3 years of living interstate from my husband. Yes, shock horror, me, who loves her husband more than anything on earth . . . chose Canberra schools, Handmade & stability over moving to Brisbane with handsome soldier. If we were actually living in Brisbane, we wouldn’t see him for about 22-24 months anyway due to deployments, exercises, courses & training. Now we're going to buy a farm & build, we're never leaving Canberra!!
This brings my solo parenting of 4 smart, sporty & social children into a new focus as we venture to high school – a whole new set of fun, fees & fashion. Our sweet twin girls start year 4 & the boy goes into year 2. After 3 long years in the junior corridor changing readers, canteen duty & helping with class craft, I’m out of there!! I will still help with creative clubs & costumes for performances + P&C.
This brings my solo parenting of 4 smart, sporty & social children into a new focus as we venture to high school – a whole new set of fun, fees & fashion. Our sweet twin girls start year 4 & the boy goes into year 2. After 3 long years in the junior corridor changing readers, canteen duty & helping with class craft, I’m out of there!! I will still help with creative clubs & costumes for performances + P&C.
How do I get through a whole year without a husband?? That little business I started back in 1999 has grown beyond a full time job & welcome distraction so I’m streamlining, focusing on Shop Handmade where I absolutely love working giggling supporting small businesses + the Handmade Market. I’m going to take time while the children do homework to focus on fitness (Yoga & running), plan my hand sewing for relaxing evening lounge craft & treat myself with foot spas & candles.
I have to be hyper organised, a dedicated housewife, present at both schools & if/ when my husband calls/ turns up on the doorstep – i'm able to drop everything & pretend he’s the only person in my world. Pressure & stress don’t agree with me (migraines) so i wander around in a bubble that is free of worry.
Some family highlights in 2010 . . .
I have to be hyper organised, a dedicated housewife, present at both schools & if/ when my husband calls/ turns up on the doorstep – i'm able to drop everything & pretend he’s the only person in my world. Pressure & stress don’t agree with me (migraines) so i wander around in a bubble that is free of worry.
Some family highlights in 2010 . . .
This amazing brainiac made it to state level in sports, was house captain & won the school's sports prize. She met the prime minister, governor general & more at special events she was nominated for. She's starting at a lovely private girl's high school & continue Japanese.
This gorgeous girl made it to state level for athletics, continues to excel in every aspect of academics & her wonderful teacher taught her to Zumba. She wants to grow up & join the Air Force as a doctor. She made it through a whole year without a concussion!!
This quirky one, not so lucky in the trip & graze department!! She excels in all arts, crafts & sports, making it to state for cross country. She loves her friends & plans to move to Italy for University (in 9 years). She also wants to be a chef, a model, a vet, a mummy & a farmer.
This little fellow was lucky not to be kidnapped by his teacher this year, she loved him & his dimples!! He blew us away with an amazing school report of academics, behaviour, sports & extra credits for caring about his class mates. What more can i say, he's my only son!!
C'est moi!! Biggest highlight of the year . . . personally - meeting up with my husband on war leave & going on a 2nd European honeymoon, including a Greek Island cruise, glorious!! Professionally, anything & everything to do with Handmade Canberra. Family - no broken bones, happy healthy children who did not have a single sick day between them all year!!
Back to reality . . .
so while being organised sounds as boring as a night in on NYE, it honestly leads to the most stress free happy family life. I never fail to get the children to school on time if I’ve been up exercising before they wake up, we always have all the ingredients for dinner when I plan & write them on a shopping list, I’m always prepared for markets when I pace myself making stock & I just know I’ll sleep better, be healthier. It’s time to stop sabotaging myself & my success by letting my studio get messy, pretending the clock is mysteriously 10 minutes fast & thinking that skipping a meal will make me lose weight!! Now you can see the trained psychologist in me, I know my demons!! I’m turning 36 this year which sounds very grown up & sensible age to start taking serious accountability.
I start the new year with a tidy studio, organised laundry & storage for things like Christmas decorations, a new collection of recipes, the best intentions to do my tax, my only credit card at a $0 balance, even a new dog lead!! I have to be my own cheer leader for 2 more years, so here goes nothing, bring it on 2011, I’m ready!!
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Thanks for reading/ following/ stalking/ supporting my blog - if you're up for some freebies, check out these two giveaways, both open for a few more days. Just follow this blog & comment at the post here for an IKEA lifestyle book &/ or here for chance to win Tangled movie tickets!! Good luck & Happy 2011 everyone, love Posie