29 January 2010

i'm a planner . . . check out this new product . . .

Greetings all,
Well after the really encouraging comments to the last post, i've been thinking, deeply, how to explain how i get everything done each day, without sounding up myself, spiritual or a bit wanky.  I won't bore you with a school morning & afternoon routines now, other than they are  planned, organised, we don't rush & we have a 25km country drive to & from school, topped with me refusing to be late!!  I'm no supermum, I'm just doing my job with a big smile on my face!!
When i met my husband, i was a teenager, i was working 2 part time jobs & doing a 32 hour a week science degree of lectures, tutorials & labs + about 15 hours travel time.  So his first Christmas gift to me was a Filofax, BRILLIANT!!  He thought i was disorganised (by military standards).  He knew i was a workaholic, determined & came from a high achieving family (my siblings include rocket scientist, surgeon, dentist, ballerina - everyone runs their own business!!)  Funny mix considering we were raised by a Naval officer & housewife who just encouraged us to be happy.
I'm a planner!!  I have been wanting to make my own books for ages, a mix of original vintage story pages with plain paper for children to read & draw!!  I have amassed a collection of such books, ready to be sliced up & bound.  Knowing how much my children love drawing & story writing, this seemed a fabulous mix.  So when i found this book binder (tipped off by Queen of Handmade, Julie) at Aldi for under $50, i had all my ideas in my head ready to put immediately into action.
While i work, i include my children, be it letting them play with scrap fabrics, buttons, ribbons or their own toys like puzzles.  They don't feel left out & unlike cooking, sewing doesn't spoil or burn between happy interuptions!!  They like feeling included & it's made for very creative children who aren't annoying, have great attention spans & focus. 

It never occured to me that this was what i am mean to do in life.  I always felt i had mothering down pat, in fact babies were a breeze.  I feel like no one wants to hear that, but even with twins, they were sleepers, feeders, happy & interesting.  I wasn't exhausted - i was bursting with energy.  I lost the weight, i did Yoga, i was on my own with my husband away at war, on course, an exercise, or interstate . . . we made the most of being a young growing family in our Army house.  I have never thought about going back to work outside the home, i've just kept building Posie up & even with all 4 children in school & my qualifications, i couldn't imagine not being a housewife!!  I enjoy housework, walking the dog, school holidays, making lunches - it's all part of the bigger plan, saving up for an early retirement.  
Kristen Doran said to me last year "Jennie you are a high energy person" & i guess i am.  I never stop moving or thinking or doing, i do not waste time, i plan out my day/ week/ month so every school/ sport/ market/ husband activity fits into my work.  Sure i find it hard to switch off at night, many people do.  I also get migraines which i am sure is my body saying 'stoooppp'.  But i do plan things out, i'm a strict mummy & i have high expectations, yet, i'm relaxed, quick to laugh, don't take myself too seriously & not pushy.  I think (drawing on my psych degree here) that children grow slowly for the following reason . . . so you have time to develope with them, hopefully one step ahead of them (can you tell i have 3 tweens??)  I pre-empt drama & i'm lucky they all LOVE school, so we have few issues, other than missing Daddy. 
In the end, i think my satisfaction in everything i do: school runs, business & housework, just makes my life easier - these things HAVE to be done, no one else is going to do them, i created this life, i have to live it either happily & accepting it, or in a constant state of chaos & being pissed off.  So just being happy reaps its own reward for me.  Our life is extremely simple, right down to meal planning, then it's dynamic as we constantly move from state to state & Daddy comes & goes for months at a time.  This coming month includes my 35th birthday, the children resuming school, collaborations, new ventures & my first market for the year - Mathilda's.  It's all planned & thought out, a little unexciting to some but it's how we roll, peacefully.  That makes us all happy.  Love Posie 

14 comments:

Lizzie said...

What a great post Posie. Thanks for the glimpse into your 'organised' chaos. It doesn't matter what/how/where you do what you do, as long as everyone is happy! That was always our mantra when our four were growing up and I guess your parents were the same, seems to have worked for us too!!
Lizzie
XXX

Corrie said...

um hello sorry but how tanned is rory! looks like he's just come back from a couple of weeks in sardinia on a beach!!!!!!!!!!! gorgeous beach!

yes personally you have it all down pat and I'm not sure how you get it all done but you do! I'm sure I'll get there one day!!!!

love your work
Corrie:)

yardage girl said...

Brilliant post - you make me feel like I'm standing still in comparison, but I guess it's all relative! I hope we get to meet one day - that would be a laugh! Nic

Posie Patchwork said...

Corrie cracked my secret, we frequently holiday on small islands, just for a recharge. I wish!! My husband has Northern Italian in him, thus 3 of my 4 children being very olive skinned & non stop swimming, no matter how much sunscreen & swim shirts - we do look like we've been to the equator for a year. Love Posie

clare's craftroom said...

Isn't being part of a family just the best thing ever ! Your life sounds happy , what more could anyone ask !

Market Girl said...

Oh my God I am tired just reading your blog!
Off to organise, well just anything.....

Christina Lowry said...

Love the books, such a great idea!

My Mother used to work like that too - if she was sewing we were making clothes for our dolls with the scraps or sorting through her buttons and we always set the table and helped clean up. :)

Penny said...

Oh Posie. That post brought tears to my eyes. It wasn't uppety at all, just very clear, concise and factual. I haven't read your previous post that obviously spawned this one - that's next on my list.

For many years I truly wondered if people like you were faking it. I have since learned that they are not (well, I'm sure some are!), and that some are just born &/or reared that way. Unfortunately I was not, and a lot of my life has been a struggle.

How I would love for you to come into my life for a few days and get me organised! Bless you dear heart for this post.

Penny XXOO

The Creative Beast said...

you are BRILLIANT! including your children in art activities is a great way to teach them that making art is a good thing and to make BOOKS is also teaching them the value of literacy =-)

you have a fantastic outlook toward your life and your energy is practically BURSTING through this post!!

best wishes for your birthday! 35 is a great year to be in =-)

I Purr-Furr to Craft said...

love this post! How refreshing to hear about a mother who likes being at home! You are so right, parenting should be celebrated

Little Angel Little Devil said...

Hi Love,

Oh we so totally have to do something FANTASTIC for your birthday!!

Your life, my life...organised chaos that's what I say!
Love Rach

The Handmaden said...

Great post, I think you're an inspiration to many of us. Maybe by the time I'm your age I'll have it all together too. Oh, hang on, I'm 34 this year - that doesn't give me much time!
Thanks so much for your positive comments on my blog - much appreciated.

life and the memoirs said...

Hi Posie! Just found your lovely blog and loved your post 'I'm a planner....', I can relate! For me life is so much calmer, I can manage it with a bit of preplanning and organisation! I'm about to start 'following' you, looking forward to reading more of your posts :)

Jenny said...

Hat off to you and your lovely family! You are an inspiration!Sure sounds like you've got the right idea about enjoying life and also getting things done-good on you:)